So this is over due but not a lot has happened.
Pregnancy:
I got the call that my one hour blood test came back too high and I needed the 3 hour test. Joy. So those who don't know, this means a 12 hour fast followed by 3 hours of sitting there for blood draws.
I watched 3 episodes of Game of Thrones.
We are also now in third trimester. O my god. I'm going to be a MOM in less than 3 months. What?!?!? I can barely remember to put my own laundry away!?!?!?
Move:
We slowly started to finish up all our thing. Canceling the electric, rent payments, etc. Next is to sell and pack and store.
Fur balls:
All tests are back and all furballs are approved but have to waiting until December. Reno is coming to a friend who has imported pit bulls to Australia. However my cats are the issue. I want to find someone to foster them the 3 months and then get them on a plane. But my worst case is a cat kennel which isn't cheap :(
Sunday, July 30, 2017
Thursday, July 20, 2017
WE HAVE A VISA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WE HAVE A VISA!!!!!!!!!
WE HAVE A VISA!!!!!!!!
AND!!! WE HAVE A 24 MONTH VISA!!!!
OK now that I've yelled this in joy let me break down some things for people who haven't followed this saga...
Louis and I have been together since December 2015. We've lived together since July 2016. This means I qualify for a visa to New Zealand based on partnership.
https://www.immigration.govt.nz/new-zealand-visas/options/join-family/explore-family-visas
We had to prove our relationship was genuine and likely to last. Harder than that sounds.
How Louis and I divide house hold spending doesn't allow for much "proof"...
So this is what we sent in to prove our relationship:
He wrote a lovely letter about our relationship history. I recommend it as a couples therapy activity.
By the way, can you tell how much this guy spoils me?
WE HAVE A VISA!!!!!!!!
AND!!! WE HAVE A 24 MONTH VISA!!!!
OK now that I've yelled this in joy let me break down some things for people who haven't followed this saga...
Louis and I have been together since December 2015. We've lived together since July 2016. This means I qualify for a visa to New Zealand based on partnership.
https://www.immigration.govt.nz/new-zealand-visas/options/join-family/explore-family-visas
We had to prove our relationship was genuine and likely to last. Harder than that sounds.
How Louis and I divide house hold spending doesn't allow for much "proof"...
So this is what we sent in to prove our relationship:
1.
Relationship of Louis and Shannon letter,
signed by Louis / Shannon Leary (8 pages)
2.
Promedica - Doctor letter confirming Shannon’s
pregnancy and due date (1 page)
3.
Promedica - Doctor report indicating next
testing during pregnancy (2 pages)
4.
Louis bank statements. 5 different statement
periods, supplied and stamped by bank
a.
May to June 2016 (4 pages)
i.
With Louis’s old apartment address before moving
together
ii.
Deposit payment for new joint apartment
iii.
2x application fees (per person) for new
(current, joint) Maumee apartment
iv.
Dates with Shannon
v.
Trip to Windsor, ON - Canada and Loretto
Kentucky
b.
June to July 2016 (4 pages)
i.
First statement showing new (current, joint)
Maumee address
ii.
Check for first month rent to Landlord (see also
check stub)
iii.
Large IKEA furniture purchase
iv.
Trip to Atlanta meeting Shannon’s father
c.
March to April 2017 (4 pages)
i.
Gifts for Shannon (Rose gold apple watch)
ii.
Shannon’s contributions to Louis’s account
towards rent
iii.
Rent payment to Landlord
d.
April to May 2017 (4 pages)
i.
Sapphire ring for Shannon’s Birthday (See also,
receipt copy)
ii.
Baby ultrasound payment
iii.
Rent payment to Landlord
iv.
Shannon’s birthday dinner date
v.
Kentucky trip
e.
May to June 2017 (4 pages)
i.
Trip to New York City with Shannon to meet
Louis’s Dad and his wife
ii.
Cirque du Soleil event tickets with Shannon
iii.
Rent payment to Landlord
5.
Check stub carbon copy (carbon copy stub)
showing payment of first rent to Landlord by Louis
6.
Landlord Residential Lease agreement, Signed
Original, Showing lease agreement with both Shannon and Louis for Maumee
address (1 page)
7.
State farm Auto Insurance, Original, - Mail
addressed to Louis at joint address (4 pages double sided)
8.
Linda - Shannon’s Mother’s supporting letter of
Shannon and Louis’s relationship (1 page, signed original, including mailing
envelope)
9.
Rick - Shannon’s step father supporting letter
of Shannon and Louis’s relationship (1 page, signed original, including mailing
envelope)
10.
Brian- Shannon’s father supporting letter of
relationship
11.
Comedian show Tickets bought by Shannon for
Louis for birthday - Jim Jefferies in Columbus Ohio (1 page e-ticket)
12.
‘Happy Everything’ 2016 Christmas card from
Shannon’s father Brian including photo Louis and Shannon (Original photo
collage print mailed to us)
13.
Bungy Jump Certificates for Shannon and Louis
February 2017 in Queenstown NZ (2x original certificate)
14.
Baby ultrasound 3D picture - 17 June 2017 @ 21
weeks (3”x4” original picture)
15.
Cabelas - receipt for bark collar bought by
Louis for Shannon’s dog Reno (card 3933)
16.
Rolex Kentucky horse event 29 April 2017 -
Shannon’s birthday weekend trip, see also bank statement record of Louis April
to May 2017 (2x original ticket stubs)
17.
Air New Zealand boarding passes - Shannon and
Louis’s boarding passes 12 Feb 2017 from Auckland to Houston Texas (2x original
boarding passes)
18.
E-tickets for New Zealand holiday January /
February 2017 matching boarding passes (8 pages)
19.
Intrepid Museum - Ticket stubs from Shannon and
Louis trip to New York City to meet Louis’s father John, John’s wife Yonghong,
Shannon’s brother Andy , Andy’s girlfriend Mara. Match to photo with all people
in relationship letter on board museum ship (2x original ticket stub + receipt)
20.
Sapphire ring receipt bought for Shannon’s 29th
birthday by Louis (Original receipt and POS receipt showing Louis’s card, also
shown in bank statements)
21.
Rent Statements – Landlord rent statement
invoices. First August 2016 invoice, and most recent July 2017 invoice (2x
Printed copies of e-bill notarised as true copies of the original)
22.
Buckeye cable and internet bill addressed to
Shannon. First July 2016 bill and May 2017 (Printed copies of e-bill notarised
as true copies of the original)
23.
EZ-Pass account summary showing Louis and
Shannon’s vehicles assigned to shared toll transponder (Internet print out
summary notarised as true copy of the original)
24.
Progressive - Certificate of Renters Insurance
on account held by Shannon listing both Shannon and Louis (e-letter printed and
notarised as true copy of the original)
He wrote a lovely letter about our relationship history. I recommend it as a couples therapy activity.
By the way, can you tell how much this guy spoils me?
Friday, July 14, 2017
Immrigation Medical Test
So my 4th of July weekend was spent in a very exciting way.
I got to drive 4 hours south to be poked, trotted, and ruled fit enough.
Lets all remember, I have worked with horses, have friends in the horse world, and guess what? I now know how our horses feel when we do pre-sale vet inspections!
So a limited medical test is really quite simple. The hardest part is finding a doctor New Zealand will allow to do the tests. For me, living within a few hours drive from the Cleveland Clinic, University of Michigan Medical campus, Ohio State Medical, etc... Had to drive to Florence Kentucky y'all. Yes Florence Kentucky. To a little doctors office that mostly does employment testing.
The order of my medical test was:
This whole process costs about $250 and they give you a file number to put on your visa paperwork.
Because we were in Kentucky anyways, I suggested (after we ran around getting extra copies of things and FedEx-ing to the visa processing company and a trip to Skyline Chili) a trip to Big Bone Lick State Park.
People from the greater Cincinnati area always giggle as we drive by the signs for Big Bone Lick Park because why not? But I had never been and figured the giggling was worth it.
Big Bone Lick is part of the Kentucky State Parks system and has prehistoric and early American history fun. Lewis and Clark have been there, Giant Sloths have been there, the Shawnee have been there. It has a few good hiking trails and a camp ground. BUT.
I got to drive 4 hours south to be poked, trotted, and ruled fit enough.
Lets all remember, I have worked with horses, have friends in the horse world, and guess what? I now know how our horses feel when we do pre-sale vet inspections!
So a limited medical test is really quite simple. The hardest part is finding a doctor New Zealand will allow to do the tests. For me, living within a few hours drive from the Cleveland Clinic, University of Michigan Medical campus, Ohio State Medical, etc... Had to drive to Florence Kentucky y'all. Yes Florence Kentucky. To a little doctors office that mostly does employment testing.
The order of my medical test was:
- Urine sample. I'm pregnant. I can give a sample to anyone at anytime.
- Eye check. OK I wear glasses to see distance when I drive and because I'm too lazy to do too much makeup. So, yes, I can't see well. But I think I passed?
- Height/weight--- Fun fact! Because I'm 25 weeks pregnant my spine (already bad from years of rowing and horseback riding) has compressed and I'm only 5' 7" now.
- Blood test- this is a total blood count and HIV check. Luckily thanks to being pregnant these were not fasting tests. THANK GOD. I don't do well without food.
- This is where the X-Ray would be but no one wants to X-Ray me. Something about harming the baby or some such.
- Doctor Check- now the doctor did the standard blood pressure, listen to lungs, etc. Additionally I had to touch my toes, reflexes checked, and joints checked for major damage (luckily I had not sprained my ankle)
This whole process costs about $250 and they give you a file number to put on your visa paperwork.
Because we were in Kentucky anyways, I suggested (after we ran around getting extra copies of things and FedEx-ing to the visa processing company and a trip to Skyline Chili) a trip to Big Bone Lick State Park.
People from the greater Cincinnati area always giggle as we drive by the signs for Big Bone Lick Park because why not? But I had never been and figured the giggling was worth it.
Big Bone Lick is part of the Kentucky State Parks system and has prehistoric and early American history fun. Lewis and Clark have been there, Giant Sloths have been there, the Shawnee have been there. It has a few good hiking trails and a camp ground. BUT.
THEY HAVE BUFFALO!!!!!!
YES BUFFALO!!!
I've never been close to buffalo before. I've seen pictures, movies, and zoo trips but a herd of 20 or so Buffalo (sorry American Bison Bison Bison) with only a fence between is so COOL!
And for the awwwwww moment... they had several born recently and they are so cute!
Look at the little baby!
For the record 5' 8" me with my stupid long arms took this picture. The little baby who was only 6 weeks old was easily 3+ feet tall (one meter).
Louis said "wow they just look like they can move things"
Also he asked about where the wings were. The park ranger was not amused.
Up next for the Blog is Job Hunting and Visa waiting.
Sunday, July 9, 2017
Shipping
OK so recap.... Last major post I promised a shipping outline.
So here is where we are shipping wise...
Concerns:
Solutions:
So here is where we are shipping wise...
Concerns:
- We have a baby on the way and stuff for babies in New Zealand is crazy expensive.
- We have 3 bikes between us
- We have clothes, kitchen, housewares etc. (standard moving things)
Solutions:
- Door to door shipping company
- Ship a large box yourself ( I'm using Kiwi Shipping http://www.kiwishipping.co.nz/ as our example)
- Everything in checked luggage on a plane with us.
- Sell everything and start a fresh (LOL no.)
So each solution has its benefits and pitfalls, remember Louis and I think we are capable people with time to spend on these solutions (your experience may differ)
Door to Door:
Similar to paying movers to pack and ship things for you, schedule, go, its at your door in Auckland. They also often have insurance on themselves and your stuff.
Downfalls: PRICE!!!! HOLY PRICE! Couple thousand US to get things to Auckland.
At this downfalls is where I ran and screamed and said NO I will sell everything and buy fresh in New Zealand.
So for us Door to Door is out.
Ship a large box yourself:
Good pricing and a few different size/shape etc options. They just charge a square foot charge.
Downfalls: You have to get it to LAX. I live in Northwest Ohio. Some added price of shipping to them in LAX. Also you have to be in New Zealand when your stuff gets there and will be picking it up from the port yourself. Time is not your friend here (they quote 30 days).
Checked Luggage:
You have it with you. You can have travelers insurance to cover it.
Downfalls: PRICE!!! So depending on how/who you fly you could be spending crazy money in bag fees. $150 for Air New Zealand for an extra bag. Nevermind if its oversized (like a bike box).
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| Momma Eagle, Reno, and Papa Kiwi having family cuddle time. |
Depending on your situation, you may like these options more than the other... I however will be finding a way to ship things to LAX to go via Kiwi Shipping.
Please remember... We aren't bringing furniture.... Just STUFF.
Saturday, July 8, 2017
I know I owe you a few posts but...
My awesome partner and I are out with friends and Eminem's "without me" comes on... and Louis and I start rapping it across a bar to each other... this is how much I love being around this man.


